You’re not alone while navigating the emotional process of adoption

From the time you realize you’re unexpectedly pregnant, your head and heart become a whirlwind of emotions. From worries about how your family and the baby’s father will react, to concerns about what to do next, it can be an overwhelming process. Even after deciding what to do, it can still be emotional. If you’re considering adoption, Legacy Adoption Services can help you navigate the emotional process of adoption.

Many feelings can pop up when you’re considering adoption

Emotions are a part of being human, and we all have the capacity to experience the full range of them. Many of these feelings can emerge while expectant parents are considering adoption. Our Texas adoption agency finds that the following feelings are common during the emotional process of adoption.

• Sadness. Pregnant parents who choose adoption may experience feelings of sadness. Those who choose adoption for their children feel they are doing the right thing. However, they still might grieve as they realize someone else will raise their baby.
• Guilt or shame. Having an unplanned pregnancy and choosing adoption for your baby are nothing to be ashamed of. However, many mothers still feel guilty or ashamed of their situation. They may worry about how other people will perceive them.
• Relief. Choosing adoption for your child can also result in a sense of relief. Knowing that your baby will become part of a loving family and receive a wealth of opportunities can make some mothers feel at peace.
• Pride. Lovingly placing your baby for adoption is something to be proud of. In doing so, you’ve made an important decision that will change the life of your little one. It also forever changes the life of a family who wants nothing more than to share their love with a child.

All of these (and any other) emotions are completely normal responses to facing an unplanned pregnancy and choosing adoption. Our Texas adoption agency is here to provide support and remind you that you’re allowed to feel all your emotions during this process.

If you need help managing your thoughts and feelings, reaching out to loved ones for support, talking to other birth mothers and journaling can all help. We can also recommend trained counselors who can help you as you move through this emotional process.

Legacy Adoption Services can help you manage the emotional process of adoption

At our Texas adoption agency, we do more than just connect birth parents and adoptive parents. We also provide a non-judgmental and supportive space to learn about your options when facing an unexpected pregnancy.

If you do decide to move forward with adoption, we can provide compassionate support that can help you cope. Contact us to learn more about how Legacy Adoption Services supports birth mothers through every step.