I’m pregnant. Now what? If you’re facing an unplanned pregnancy, start here.
If you find yourself staring at a positive pregnancy test in stunned disbelief, thinking over and over, “Oh no, I’m pregnant!,” try not to panic. Take a deep breath. You do have options, and you do have time to consider what to do when you are facing an unplanned pregnancy. Considering adoption in Texas is just one of your options, and there are knowledgeable and kind people who can help you through the decisions ahead.
Take your time when facing unplanned pregnancy
The initial shock of that “I’m pregnant” moment will wear off. And when it does, you may find yourself unsure of what to do next. Who should you tell? Where can you go for help? We want you to know that there are experienced, unbiased and highly trained counselors who can help you through your next steps.
If you are considering adoption in Texas, we urge you to reach out to Legacy Adoption Services. Any time of the day or night, we have trained individuals standing by, all across the state, ready to give you the reassurance, information and help you may need.
What to think about when “I’m pregnant” is all you can think about
Many women facing unplanned pregnancy need time to slow their racing thoughts and think realistically about their situation. Here are a few things to consider as you plan for the future.
- What are my options? For many women, this boils down to parenting or placing the baby for adoption.
- Who will support me? Consider whether you have support from the father, friend, parents or other family members you can confide in, and who will not pressure you to take one path or another.
- What about my plans? If you are a student, working or looking forward to something else in your future, your goals for yourself are important to keep in mind. No matter what you decide to do next, don’t give up on your dreams.
- Can I afford a baby? For some people, an unplanned pregnancy and parenting a baby are a manageable expense, but for others, supporting a child seems like a financial impossibility.
- What do I want for this child? All mothers want their children to have good, happy lives. What does that look like to you? Can you provide the love, safety, security and opportunities that you would want for your baby? Will married full-time adoptive parents provide the life I envision for my child?
Get the facts before you decide
Many people are surprised to learn about the costs of parenting a child to adulthood, as well as about the resources and options available through modern adoption. If you are considering adoption in Texas vs. parenting, please arm yourself with all of the facts about both options before you make a decision about your next steps.
Our experienced counselors are required by Texas state law to remain objective, but we would never pressure you into a decision. We understand that the path that you must take is yours and yours alone. We are just here to support you and connect you with any resources you may need.
When you reach out to us for information about your options for unplanned pregnancy, you will not feel one bit of pressure from our team to place your baby for adoption. Instead, we will answer all of your questions with the factual information that you need to know, so that you can make a decision that is best for you, your future, and the future of your child.
Contact us when you are ready to talk and learn the truth about your options. If you are experiencing that “oh no, I’m pregnant!” moment, we are here to help.
